First Hair cut

I am so Fucking pissed off right now. Someone cut my sons hair without asking my husband or myself permission. We had discussed cutting/trimming his hair and decided on trimming the front but leaving his curls on the side and the back. We talked about all this with my in-laws because they think all of his hair needs to be cut. I'm sorry but he's MY son and I will decide when he gets his hair cut. They are worried that he'll be mistaken for a girl. NOONE has ever mistaken him for a fucking girl. Sun night we left him with my in-laws so that we could go to a movie. Our first in over a year and it seems while we were gone someone took it upon themselves to cut his fucking bangs. He use to have a curly cue in the front that was SO cute now it's fucking gone. My husband has been in Iraq and now he's on an extended TDY (temp duty) and he's missed almost all of Ryan's firsts and now someone has fucking taken that away from us. I am so pissed I can't even see straight and my husband is even more pissed. I do not envy the person who cut his hair after he gets done with them. Who does that though? Who goes and cuts someone else's childs hair? I could understand if they had fucking asked first. But it takes some fucking balls to decide that someone else's child's hair is to long and cut it. NEVER mentioning it the parents. Maybe they hoped we wouldn't notice but how the fuck was I not supose to. The front when straightened went down to the tip of his nose. Now it doesn't even go down to his eyebrow and all the curl in front is gone. How the fuck am I not supose to nitice that. At first I thought it was my daughter who cut it but it's to fucking straight for a 6 year old to have done it. I think it might be awhile before I go back to my in-laws house.